is it bad to be in love with your best friend? a lot of the time people would say no but in my situation i guess it is a bad thing. me and matthew have been best friends for over a year now and ive fallen so hard for him. hes such a dork. he likes pokemon and is one of the smartest, best people i know. he knows everything about me and I’m very lucky to have him. the only problem is, is that he knows i like him but I’m pretty sure he doesn’t feel the same. he took me out today and bought me ice cream and just being with him made me happy. i dont know what to do. to wait, and see what could happen? or try to move on and see other people? no matter how gay i feel for saying this, i think im i love with my best friend. and i dont know what do to.